Humans
are an interesting group of living beings, with a very complex psychology. Not
only does the personality characteristics of people differ, but individual
capacity to react in certain situations is also very different. You can never
predict when a person loses self-control and gets addicted to something. However,
research shows that people involved in different addictions, tend to share a
distinct psychological trait that predisposes them to becoming an addict. Let
us look at some types of addictive personality. Types Anxious Personality
People with stressed or anxious personality find it very difficult to manage
stress. They break down easily under pressure and have poor stress management
skills. These people become addicted to alcohol, drugs, etc., to overcome their
anxiety and forget their problems. Difficulty Delaying Gratification Such
people find it really difficult to plan and achieve their long-term plans. They
are so focused on their short-term needs, that they cannot manage to
concentrate on the long-term goals. They are on a look out for 'quick fix' solutions,
display impulsive behavior, and have a tendency of taking risks in life. These
people are often addicted to drugs and alcohol.
Passive Aggressive These people
often appear calm Alpha Monster Advanced and peaceful, externally. But internally, they tend to hide
their anger and have poor anger management skills. Immature These people have a
very childlike outlook towards life. They brag about minor achievements and
love the adulation they receive for it. They cannot control their immature
behavior and tend to be boastful in nature. Substituting Vices These people
switch over from one addiction to another, when they can no longer continue
with their previous addiction. For example, alcoholics who give up drinking
alcohol, take up smoking instead. These people may be prone to multiple vices.
The perfect example would be of a workaholic who takes up smoking and drinking
alcohol every night after work. Insecurity These people have difficulty to
commit in a relationship, or to trust someone. They may constantly seek
approval of others to overcome their insecurities, failure, or lack of
self-confidence. Compulsive Behavior They have a black or white approach
towards life. These people may be perfect in everything they do or the way they
look. They may be in complete control of their life and have a dominating
personality. On the other hand, some people falling into this category, may be
total failures and utterly powerless in their lives.
These people easily fall
prey to any kind of addiction. Antisocial These people cannot follow the rules
of the society and alienate themselves socially. They suffer from feelings of
isolation, lack of intimacy, and total failure with personal relationships.
They turn to drugs, alcohol, and smoking as a substitute of their lack of
social support. Causes of Development of an Addictive Personality These people
may have an obsessive behavior that cannot quantify their actions and results.
They tend to repeat their behavior over and over again, and it gives them an
Adrenalin rush that they love. This obsessive behavior helps them build a
feel-good emotion. Second cause is stress, that makes people turn to alcohol
and drugs to cope up. They mask their stress and their inability to overcome
the pressure. Many times, people cannot handle the responsibilities of their
actions. They cannot find any fault with themselves and do not understand the
gravity of consequences due to their immature behavior and personality. Tests
The doctor may conduct a physical examination to determine the height, weight,
heart rate, blood pressure, temperature, etc. He may even conduct a complete
blood count, screen you for alcohol or drug addictions, and conduct a thyroid
function test. Next, is the very important psychological evaluation test. Here,
the doctor tries to determine the patient's behavior pattern, addiction, their
compatibility in relationships, etc. He will try to find the hows and whys,
along with the severity of the addiction.
This is the right time to talk to him
about any thoughts of suicide, self-destruction, and even feelings of harm
towards others. There are many tests available on the Internet that may point
towards something wrong in your behavior. If you find anything unusual, visit a
psychologist and ask him for further help. If your partner is suffering from any
sort of addiction, and you suspect that he/she may fall under this personality
type, help him/her seek medical help. Even after medical and psychological
help, if the addictive behavior does not change, or becomes even worse, the
best thing to do is walk off. It is not easy to break relationships, but if the
other person has no regrets over his/her behavior, and continues with the
addiction, it is wise to call it off. If the person shows improvement, and is
really trying hard to become normal, give him/her your full support and care.
Together, with love and mutual understanding, you may help your partner control
his/her weakness. People with an addictive personality develop dependent
personality disorders. If you suspect of having this problem, then visit a
doctor for further analysis. With therapies, rehabilitation, and medications,
you may be able to control your harmful behavior. How to Stop Hiccups The worst
time to get hiccups is when you're in the midst of doing something or with
others around. It's even worse when everyone is quiet and it begins without
warning. Find out how to save yourself the embarrassment.
Hiccups
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before you discover your magical cure. Have 9 continuous sips of water, without
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When you can sense the hiccup, swallow in some air. Swallow a whole sugar cube,
or a teaspoon of white sugar.
Do not try this method if you are diabetic. Close
your eyes. Press your eyeballs gently by placing your first two fingers on
them, for 5 seconds. Hold an ice pack to your diaphragm. Lemons have also been
found effective in curing hiccups. To half a glass of water, add a whole
lemon's juice, and sip till the hiccups go. Alternatively, suck on a lemon with
1 tsp of salt added to it. Inhale and exhale deeply into a brown paper bag.
Ensure both, your mouth and nose are covered by the bag. Remedies for Babies
Ironically, when babies get hiccups, the parents are upset more than the babies
themselves. It is natural to get anxious about anything that occurs with a
baby. However, babies getting hiccups is normal, as their system is not fully
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anxious. Just comfort the baby till they go. Ensure that your baby burps
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hiccups. Hiccups in babies cannot be cured the way they are in adults. What is
required is a certain amount of distraction, especially in case of older
babies, as they may become frustrated with its regular occurrence. Sometimes,
breastfeeding the baby for about 15 - 20 seconds without stopping may help. If
you find that your hiccups refuse to go away, you may have an underlying
medical condition.
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